Joyce
Today is Joyce Clark’s {Ryan’s Grandma} birthday.
I’ve been trying to write this post for awhile, but it was hard to find the words that seemed appropriate, especially because there are so many people in the family who knew her so much better than I.
But, in addition to being a cornerstone of the family, Joyce was a loyal reader of the blog and would often send me encouraging emails to keep writing. I know that she felt like she knew our boys because of the stories and photos written here.
There aren’t enough words to say how much the family misses her. She will forever be the boys’ beloved, “Grandma Juice”. Grandma Joyce and Grandpa Bill have had a huge impact on Ryan’s life and on mine, even in the short time that I’ve known them.
They have been so generous with time and love and resources. They made such an effort, that despite living far away from us, both Tate and Derek “knew” them and were blessed enough to always receive birthday and Christmas cards. Even in the midst of battling cancer for years, Joyce and Bill always remembered everyone else’s lives.
I will always remember going down to visit them in Palm Desert with little Tate, going to dinner and watching Joyce laughing as she gave him his first tastes of whipped cream. Kid thought he’d won the lottery.
Mostly, I will remember how positive she always was, even in the midst of being so ill, her sense of humor and how proud she was of all of her kids and grandkids. I know Ryan will remember the years of birthdays, Christmases and other family celebrations where everyone gathered together and how great it was to have Bill and Joyce right there as he was growing up.
The most important legacy we leave our children, grandchildren and in this case, great-grandchildren are the memories of time spent together and active demonstration of how much we loved them.
Joyce left a legacy we can all learn from.
You can read about Joyce’s life here.
Nice post, Meeka. So sorry that you have this loss in your family.
Thank you for this beautiful tribute Meeka. Mom loved all of her family so much and was so very proud of each and every one of us. Your blog helped her feel close to your family, even though miles separated you- such a blessing. She cherished every story I shared with her regarding any of the kids and shared with all of her friends, so much love of family. Thank you for keeping her memory alive through your words, I know the kids will have them forever. I miss so much and appreciate the support and love of all of you. Love you so much!